Feelin "Some Type of Way"

First of all let me apologize SINCERELY for being gone so long. I take a little hiatus from time to time because for the longest I've had so much on plate. But here I am and now that I've done a recent "cleaning of my closet" both personally and professionally, it will allow me more time to chat with you guys....

Truth of the matter is I've been through hell and back in the almost year its been since I've written. Found out the love of my life was actually the love of someone elses. Attempted to be right with someone new who didn't want to be right with me. Had a life changing surgery, played match maker, rubbed elbows with some celebs (ok that part isn't unusual) and found out some folks that I thought were close to be really aren't. So if you would be so kind as to oblige me I'd like to take some time to clean up the trash from my fab lane and vent a little bit to make it the beautiful and glamorous place it should be.

Ahem *clears throats*:

Why do chicks always have crap on their minds and then won't speak on it? Never understood why a person will tell everyone else whats bothering them except the person they are actually pissed with? Keep it 100! Its really not that damn hard... it might not even be what you think. In the words of Kevin Heart "say it with your chest"! There are only 3 outcomes and when you think of it in that perspective the odds aren't really all that bad. 1) you find out you were mad for absolutely nothin. 2) You get down to the bottom of the beef and either squash it or walk away knowing the truth. 3) You get slapped for being so damn arrogant as to think you were really that important to the person you were "sub-tweeting", mumbling under your breath or rolling your eyes at.

Why in the hell do men think a woman's kindness translates to some form of weakness? Listen up jerk-off: Just because she doesn't call you an asshole to your face for thinkin she was just gonna "drop her draws cuz you sexy" doesn't mean she's not thinkin it. NEWSFLASH: WOMEN CAN ALWAYS GET LAID!! Stop confusing wanting your trfilin ass with needing you. SHE DOESN'T NEED YOU!! Oh and some women are cool with a "no strings attached" relationship. If it doesn't make you a nasty ass dude when you say it then it shouldn't make her a whore or slut when she does. Get Your Damn Life Together!

Ladies quit comparing yourself to other women. God only made one you! You are uniquely beautiful, talented, and inspirational. It is you that you wake up with and go to bed with every night with or without a significant other. My success does not translate to your failure and vice versa. DO YOU! Because no one does YOU better.

Whew... thank you so much for lettin me get that off my chest. I swear its been burnin a hole in it for a while now lmao. Also, please excuse the profanity but.. a girl had to do what a girl had to do.

Before I get outta here I wanna send a quick wave to my fellow Fab Lane Diva's gettin their "entrepreneur" on! DJ Desirez, Mz, Brownie, Adrienne "Amazon Brickhouse" (yall really need to check out her ask Ask Adrienne segment on fb), Annie Conley, and Keitha Blount.

Lets Get It Ladies...The World Is Ours!